The Art of Attraction

Feb 15, 2026    Chris Edmondson

Our culture tells us attraction is mostly physical, instant, and driven by chemistry. When attraction fades, people assume something is wrong and move on. But Scripture paints a much deeper picture. But maybe we should rethink what really draws people together—and what actually keeps love alive. Attraction isn’t something you chase, but something you cultivate. Attraction is about becoming the person God wants you to be and allowing God to bring to you the kind of person He knows is best for you.

THE BIG IDEA: Marriage is not about finding the right person as it is becoming the right person.