Think of the deals you’ve struck in your life. Your first car. Your first real job. Your first house. You saw what you wanted, did what you had to do to get it—and you came home with a done deal. No deal compares to winning a wife, though.  Oone day, you closed the deal. Your wedding day was the day you proved your love to the world and to her. Your marriage feels like the most obviously closed deal in your whole life. Right? Well, not exactly. It just feels closed for you.